When a man tells you as his girlfriend with whom you share no children, that he thinks your daughter is sexually appealing and he wants to bed her, I URGE you to report him to SAPS immediately.
This is not something normal people say, it is also not how stable men think. It is especially not ok to entice and bribe a young girl under the age of 18 to win her over or try to coerce her into bed by taking her out while you are with your other children and get her intoxicated to do so.
There is just nothing ok about any of it.
Your love for this man falls away immediately and your maternal instinct needs to kick in.
If you have proof of his words over text messages or evidence of it like I do, type your statements and take it to SAPS immediately.
You cannot have a sexual predator around your children.
I cannot say this enough, do not allow your sadistic partner to prey on your children.