Just because he did it to you, does not mean he will inflict the same behaviour on another women. (Not yet anyway)
There are probably many reasons as to why the sociopath or toxic relationship he has offered you was only directed at you, with the highest level of severity and not so much on others.
1. You are married to him and he shares children with you.
2. You have a solid family support base and he knows he will not get away with it.
3. It is still coming.
4. He knows you will not stand for it and if he did he would probably be in legal trouble.
Some women are still vulnerable, innocent and extremely forgiving, others are alone in the world with no family support base. They know these things. They are designed to sum you up in weeks and they can gauge who they can and cannot mess with. It really is an animal instinct.
So if you are confused in your relationship because the ex-girlfriend or partner is crazy (because he said so) and she has made some serious allegations and accusations towards who he is and he has not behaved this way with you, here is some insight as to why.
He is still a predator who is highly dangerous but just to someone else or others.
I would not count myself lucky, because in the end you are still dating a lunatic.
Ladies, when there is smoke there is fire. One of the biggest RED FLAGS is dating a man who claims his ex is crazy.
Know the signs.