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People Will Be People.

10/12/2020

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​"There are far too many silent sufferers.  Not because they don't yearn to reach out, but because they've tried and found no one who cares."
— Richelle E. Goodrich 
​Food for thought: PEOPLE!
1. People are insecure, even when they say they not.
2. People will turn on you in a moment's notice.
3. People are only in your life for seasons. (it is very rare to have a lifelong relationship these days)
4. They offer time, but they don't offer much.
5. People will never agree to being wrong. Stop trying to make them see your side.
6. Most people associate with you because they want something from you.
7. You are not going to please everybody, so take a stand.
8. Stop caring so much for those who don't deserve it.
9. They do not want anything in their life disrupted even if you are in desperate need for their help. (support base)
I have learnt that there are only a handful of people that will go out of their way to help you in a time of need, most are people I never thought would help me. Today, I know who my real people are. That is NEVER a bad thing. Yes, it hurt.
When you realise that you are not going to get the support you need and deserve from your family and friends the quicker you will get on your feet.
It is ok to do this on your own. You are quite capable of doing it. Of course it is much easier to have a support base. Just because there isn't one does not mean you cannot stand up for yourself.
Much Love
Zen
#support
#mentalhealth
#16DaysOfActivism
#fearless
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    My name is Zen Williams, I am here to share my story with you so that you can find the courage and escape the silence and abuse you are living in.
    I underwent a very traumatic few years under the actions of a sociopath/narcissist who called my family & friends and they all worked against me. His aim was to book me into a mental institution. He destroyed my life, my homes, my jobs, my income, my credit record. It got so bad that I had to move Provinces and fled Cape Town and moved to Port Elizabeth, I lost my children due to being so far away, and the distance between us is extremely hard on them.
    ​He hacked my phones, knowing all the data and used it against me to play with my mind and my life. He also took all my data and published it online which included nudity under my real name. 
    I want to encourage anyone who is facing physical abuse, emotional or mental abuse, narcissistic abuse to come forward. There are channels that can help you, you can do this. 
    You have the right to live a peaceful life. You have the right to feel safe. You have the right to privacy. You have the right to open a case against your abuser and seek justice. You are not alone. You can do this. 

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