Narcissists are quite convincing in that they can manipulate others to get them to see you are the problem and not them. They say we are the crazy ones, the unstable ones, the ones who need to go for mental help and be institutionalised. They work their manipulation magic so that others can see that we are the ones out of control and need to be saved. They may say, "I'm just so worried about him/her" or "He/she is falling apart" Narcissists know just what to say because you have been their case study for so long and because they have lured any bit of dirt and information from your past out of you. They then take this information and make their case viable with your family and friends. They believe this nonsense because it appears to be true because they are using pivotal life points from your past while maintaining blatant lies.
This is how you are discredited and this can take place in a moment of minutes. It is another form of isolation, so you are left with no support. It is a very evil form of abuse.
Rise Up Against Domestic Based Violence - The Truth
My name is Zen Williams, I am here to share my story with you so that you can find the courage and escape the silence and abuse you are living in.