Am I Being Abused - Check List

How They Act                  
Rushing intimacy
Charming 
Status orientated
Behaviour never changes
Chronic lying
Wreckless & impulsive
Patterns To Watch For
You have a feeling something is wrong
Lots of crazy people in their past
Concern for public image
No regard for rules or laws
Never apologises
Demands trust
Fragmented relationships
No accountability
Makes Excuses 
Cheating
Bad with money (big spender)
You feel you might be in danger
Confusion - story changes
Projection​

The Ah-Ha Moments
Intrusive behaviour
Isolation
Double standards
Gives you alcohol but they never drink
Going through your information
Using your information and personal life events against you
Lives in a fantasy world
Lies about you to others and you find out
Shaming other and you
Condescending
Teases and tortures you in jest
Feels like you need to be careful what you say and do around them
You don't feel safe
Hostile reaction when credit is given to others
They provoke guilt in you
These are the most important signs for you to be aware of. I know it is not always easy to trust your own instincts but in cases like these it would be best to.